bluegreen17 | (no subject)

wow. it's kinda freaky that i can really relate to a lot of these linkin park lyrics.

my sisters and i have been having an email disagreement/fight over when we're going to get together to clean out mom's belongings and at whose convenience. as it turns out,there's no convenience for any of us...we're all stressed,have little spare time,and so we really do have to make compromises. it sounds silly for all us to get very upset about this,but it doesn't take much sometimes,and there are five of us to reach a compromise. and i have a tendency to freak out when i need to do one more chore and when i'm asked to do it at a certain time. but i hate the fact that i contributed to people being upset.

so today i wrote an email (that i had to edit down to remove all the references of self-pity or anger peeking out. i've let out anger already...but in the wrong way.) i put my stubbornness and attempts at self-preservation-misguided as they are-aside and asked for a compromise and what i was willing to do to bring peace amongst ourselves again. because i really don't think we want to do that to each other.

so i hope what i wrote to my sisters helps and we can work it out.

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Must be a good week for sibling misunderstanding/disagreements. I seldom see or talk to my siblings and today I had a big disagreement with one. I didn't handle it very well either.
Sigh.

i think these sibling things can be rather intense. i saw two of my sisters yesterday. but they are the ones who tend to understand me a bit better. haven't heard from the other two,but they both have families and are busy with that,so hopefully i'll hear from them sometime. i hope your misunderstanding gets sorted out. ouch.

i wish you much luck with that. i can imagine how hard that must be.
*hugs*
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